Marital Adjustment
Marriage is an institution where two people start living to fulfils social ,physical ,mental sharing for a life.
It is a part of life at least once in a life you will face this ritual.
But what exactly marriage is ?
Is it sound like very good bounding between two person or something different than that.
What is marriage?
Marriage is an institution whose aim is cohabitation.
Even in today's situation about 8 out of 10 get married at the age of 24 to 35.
Most of the time people marry with someone who is in equal status with respective age ,social ,religion ,race,economical.
Motives to marry
Most of the time people are unaware of motives require to marry.
They even confuse to answer why they are in relationship and getting married.
They feel like they marry because both person are in love. But is it really they want to say?
In today's technological world the percentage of successful marriage is on high alert.
Alarming increase in Divorce rate and depression related to mate catch social scientist attention towards marriage institution and hence Objective of Marriage.
They are in search of new perceptive about how marriage will successful.?
Till now success of marriage is nothing but its longevity of togetherness.
Is it only longer marriage will say both partners are happy with each other for a longer time.?
When people marry on romantic basis they get divorced as loving relationship ends.
So many countries now focused on marital success rate for better parenting reason also.
As many values get changed in new decades social scientist focused on quality of marriage rather than its longevity.
How can success of marriage define?
Success of marriage is defined on the basis of marital satisfaction of both partners in terms of emotional ,physical ,social,mental ,economical even parental .
Is it possible that can two people live together for a longer time by satisfying all above cited needs.
There is no perfect criteria to tell how marriages make successful ?
Marriages get successful only both partners have ability to change their perceptions according to the needs of age and have unique problem solving ability or having fun together.
Beautiful points to be remembered for long lasting marriages:
1.Husband and Wife should treat each other as their best friends.
2.Once a week should spend quality time together
3 Should have quality communication on every aspect of each others domain.
4.One of the partner should carry good humour sense to fill the silence between talking and seasons.
5.Should have affirmative communication.
6.Must have positive attitude towards partner .
7.Always highlight partner's good and likeable qualities than shortcomings.
8. Should proud on your partner's success and achievement.
9. Always exchange your ideas with each other.
10.Share marital responsibility ,home chores and enjoy parenting.
If we Follow this,we would present a great example for our community as a longer marital relationship.
After all Success doesn't need loneliness but togetherness!!1
