Ideal Self ...Self Esteem
Self Esteem
Self esteem is one of the very important concept of Self .
We know self concept is knowing about your own evaluation.
Self Esteem : Self esteem is personal evaluation of oneself which helps to feel worthy.
Self esteem is influenced by variety of influences cached from our childhood experiences ,our relations to our parents,our own ideas of ideal self.
Self esteem majorly influenced by our graph of success and failures.
The experiences of success enhance our self esteem while repeated failures declines it.
Comparison with others lowers the self esteem.
Parents who are more affectionate towards their child help to raise their children with high self esteem.
Many times self esteem is consider as a single entity but it is vast. doing one thing with all confidence raise self esteem but when same person is not too much confident to do other task will feel under esteem.
Eg. Mery is excellent in typing but afraid to speak in front of superiors.so Mery feel high esteem only doing her work silently but same time she feel so under esteem to speak.
Self esteem is also depend upon the way you take yourself.
Eg. Joe got 79% and she feel high self esteemed because she consider her potentials and her hard work.
But same time Mary who also secured same percentage not feel like that as she considers her marks with someone else.
Self Esteem get enhanced by Self Acceptance.
We should know real we so we can accept the way people think about us,have a chance to improve rather feeling sad.
People with high self esteem get acknowledged by others.So in society they can make their own positions and relations.
Self esteemed people can make more enjoyable relationship with other people.
People with high self esteem generate high self confidence.
Self Esteem is a trait which we earned but not get by birth.
It is acquired trait that you have a lot of scope to develop it.
You are the only one who can design your self ,self esteem.
Always be sure about your expectations from yourself ...Your Ideal Self .
The Ancient Philosopher said "What you think of yourself is much more important than what others think of you."
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