# Self Concept
What is basically Self Concept?
Many of us go usually for a family trip or wedding ceremony once a year.
There are many happy moments and we click our photos .
Immediately or after while when we have look of such pics .Many of us show a reluctant expressions about our image that get clicked .
Or think like this is not a good click.Next time we say no to more sudden clicks.
Why this happens?
It means we are not accepting our self the way we actually are.
When the difference arise between real self and imaginary self that produce detrimental effect on our mental health and so loosing self confidence.
Self Concept:
It is kind of how we know our self. It mainly includes our values, Emotions which reflect in you.
Self concept is our identity for our self.
Self concept is so conscious that we always take care that know one will threaten it .
Three important Self are:
A.Self image :identify your body structure-how much you aware of your body
Ex.How thin or fat your body to fit in particular dress or for click
B.Ideal Self: Ideal self is I 'd to be.
It is not actually known by many of us due to parental pressure ,social pressure as we grow.
We only do what othres let us to do.
So ideal self cant grow properly.
Ex.If we don't fulfil parents wishes we are not so worthy for them.
#Social selves:
How I look in others eye?Do they like me if I Behave the way they like?
These selves are really different but if one get stronger than real self then one has to face lot of issues related to mental health.
Always think about you ,your ideals,your passion,your dreams. Don't think what others gestures about your action.Think before your action ,before action think about You .. A real You.
When you feel Happy then only you make others happy.
