Criticism,self esteem,points to be remember ,anger arouse due to criticism make it value

     Are You feel low self esteemed when criticised?

When tried this question with some of close ones I'll get answer like "Yes,I feel rejected"or some of answered" I fell Useless" even some answers are shocking like No one loves me and my deeds.

All answers are actually true responses.

From all sudden answers suggest that when some one criticised you, you take it as personal harm or self dismissal and to save own self and try to shoot that criticism at any cost.

But what they exactly doing are they protecting their self or devaluate their ideal self .when someone criticised or argued with you it means that person considers your presence .

But as you get criticised ,you on your defence mechanism to prove how correct you are,actually you are wasting lot of energy to justify others or  to prove another's perception about your self,we can say it is a part of your social self.

But If we take our Criticism for personal enhancement or growth of our ideal self we save lot of mental energy.

We should always keep in mind that nobody is perfect but a perfection is not always make you right.

So, let our self to be a human with all accepted corrections for better self.

 Points To Be Remember:

1.Take criticism as a valid point that you are being noticed.

2. Criticism  is very valuable observation that we can not do for our self ,so accept it as a advantage.

3.Always use that agony which raised by criticism to improve our self .

4.Always take positive ideas  from criticise.

After all criticism not lowers your esteem but help to boost .Think Over it!!!